Posts tagged Shay
Shay's Got News...

Our journey through pregnancy, loss, pregnancy, birth, postpartum, & now pregnancy again — it's taught me (still teaching me) SO MUCH. One takeaway? It's true what they say — no two pregnancies are alike! And I am not the same woman.

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Using your “BRAIN” to inform decisions in Labor // Cesarean, Thrice Denied

I have been talked through transferring to the OR for cesarean. I have uttered those familiar words, "Whatever it takes to get my baby here safely" and meant them with every fiber of my being. I had a very long labor at home during what was a planned homebirth. After a few days of laboring with a stuck baby (her chin wouldn't tuck, and I was lingering at about 8/9cm dilated), I opted for an epidural at the hospital in order to get some rest. I knew that an epidural would likely mean Pitocin, and that I was risking a cascade of interventions. But I felt confident in my decision to transfer to the hospital and medically intervene. Little did I know, I would be talked through cesarean 3 times in the next 9 hours.

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Mighty Oaks from Little Acorns: A Story of Pregnancy Loss & Recovery

The following blog post shares my personal experience with early pregnancy loss. Please consult with a professional and consider doula support before making your own informed decisions throughout trying to conceive, pregnancy, loss, or birth. Remember, you have the right to informed consent and refusal. And you deserve a supportive team of professionals who takes you seriously and treats you with comfortable care and respect. If you have any questions about doula care or what to expect throughout pregnancy and beyond, connect with us here. We’re here to journey alongside you!

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Shay's Empowered Birth Story

It wasn’t until the afternoon of Monday, February 17 — 9 days after my “guess date” — that the strong, persistent contractions stuck around. It was the real deal this time! (My midwives knew what they were talking about when they revealed that most first-time birthers don’t go into labor naturally until closer to 10 days after their “due date.”)

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